I've gotten a bit behind on posting to my blog. I have been very busy. I graduated with my Associate's Degree. It was a great experience but also very frustrating. The speakers took WAY too much time and I was about ready to scream by the time we finally got to walk. Worse yet, my four year old got frustrated too and subjected everyone in the auditorium to one of his lovely temper tantrums. My mother-in-law took him outside but not before everyone was staring. I was just sitting hoping that no one knew me well enough to connect me with the screaming child in the stands. Don't look, don't look, don't look!
In garden news the darn gopher is at it again. He ate my bean seedlings and I am debating whether it is too late to start again. Some of the seedlings are still growing but about half of them were clipped off too close to the ground and won't grow back. I am hesitant to use lethal options but becoming tempted. There are children and pets in the area and I don't like the idea of putting out poison of any kind in case it should go somewhere other than where I intended. So poison is pretty much out. I have thought about using a sonic spike but they have mixed reviews to say the least. I think I am going to be left with the stinky but known effective route of predator urine. Meanwhile, in continuing frustrating news a number of seedlings in the greenhouse have succumbed to damp off and a neighborhood cat is digging (and leaving presents) in my garden beds. The gooseberry set a beautiful crop of berries only to drop nearly all of them a week and a half later. I am not sure if proper pollination or the bush not being mature is the problem here. I may have to look into a mason bee house. In slightly better news the strawberries look set to produce a bumper crop but they may ripen in the week we are going to be away from home so that is a little frustrating as well. Needless to say, I am not having the best garden year I have ever had but I am trying not to let that discourage me.
I have put out squash and cucumbers as well as planted some of the cucumbers and luffas directly in the dirt of the greenhouse floor. I am hoping that at least one batch, those planted outdoors or those in the greenhouse, do well.
Well, more later perhaps.
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Identification Help Needed
I helped out at the local arboretum today. I helped with re-organizing, weeding, and re-planting the herb garden. They have worked on the garden annually as far as weeding and keeping it in decent shape but it hasn't been fully assessed and organized in several years. The last comprehensive listing of plants in the garden was in 2001 to give an idea of where they are at currently. They have some great plants but so far if my tentative identifications are correct some plants were added between 2001 and now and not everything that was added was an herb plant. So, obviously, that complicates identification if I can not narrow my search to herb garden plants only.
The first plant that I managed to positively identify was French Tarragon. It was positively identified through pictures and also due to the fact that a tag for the plant was found when it was trimmed back. It had grown quite large and overwhelmed the tag.
The second plant that I got a positive or nearly positive identification on was Rue, variety unknown. I didn't find a tag on this one but it is unique enough looking that there isn't much chance of being wrong on identification.
The last plant that I got a pretty solid identification on was Artemisia. It is most likely the variety 'Silver King'. I am not positive on the variety but I am pretty positive that it is Artemisia.
The next plant could potentially be Comfrey or Hyssop but identification on this one will probably be near impossible until it blooms since it is so generic in appearance.
The next plant I found a potential for but am not certain I got this one right. The reason I am so uncertain is that it is only hardy to zone 6a and we are right at the edge of hardiness. Also, it is not an herb.
The plant I found that looks like this one is Cotton Lavender or Gray Santolina. The pictures above are from the arboretum's herb garden. The picture below is from the internet. I could use a second, third, etc. opinion on if they are the same plant. They certainly look like it to me!
The next plant I felt certain I would have found a match for since it is very distinctive. However, I have come up a complete blank on identification for it. The only thing I have found that could even be partially similar is tansy and that doesn't seem like a good match. I think I will just have to wait til this flowers!
Lastly, we have another complete unknown. Again, this is one that I think will need to wait for flowers for a positive identification.
Other herbs that we either had a complete identification on or I just knew the identity of were chives, garlic chives, fennel, lemon balm, rosemary (it actually survived the winter!), sage (normal garden, not tricolor), apple mint, winter savory, and thyme. Due to need to transplant or plants that had babies I was able to take home some artemisia, rue, chives of both types, fennel, mint, French tarragon, winter savory, and thyme. My herb garden went from being just a normal garden to actually seeming like an herb garden. It is looking amazing, or will as soon as the plants recover from transplant shock.
Any comments on identification can go into the comments section. I appreciate any and all help!!
The first plant that I managed to positively identify was French Tarragon. It was positively identified through pictures and also due to the fact that a tag for the plant was found when it was trimmed back. It had grown quite large and overwhelmed the tag.
The second plant that I got a positive or nearly positive identification on was Rue, variety unknown. I didn't find a tag on this one but it is unique enough looking that there isn't much chance of being wrong on identification.
The last plant that I got a pretty solid identification on was Artemisia. It is most likely the variety 'Silver King'. I am not positive on the variety but I am pretty positive that it is Artemisia.
The next plant could potentially be Comfrey or Hyssop but identification on this one will probably be near impossible until it blooms since it is so generic in appearance.
The next plant I found a potential for but am not certain I got this one right. The reason I am so uncertain is that it is only hardy to zone 6a and we are right at the edge of hardiness. Also, it is not an herb.
The plant I found that looks like this one is Cotton Lavender or Gray Santolina. The pictures above are from the arboretum's herb garden. The picture below is from the internet. I could use a second, third, etc. opinion on if they are the same plant. They certainly look like it to me!
The next plant I felt certain I would have found a match for since it is very distinctive. However, I have come up a complete blank on identification for it. The only thing I have found that could even be partially similar is tansy and that doesn't seem like a good match. I think I will just have to wait til this flowers!
Lastly, we have another complete unknown. Again, this is one that I think will need to wait for flowers for a positive identification.
Any comments on identification can go into the comments section. I appreciate any and all help!!
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Why Do Good Days Always Have to be Followed by Bad Ones?
I suppose that is something of a rhetorical question but I really would like an answer at some point. Yesterday was a good day. A really good day. A rare enough commodity in our lives that I would have liked to try to build on success. Instead, money came in today. Living on a fixed income is hard. It is stressful. It sucks and it also sucks the life out of happiness and relationships. Every month we struggle and every month we fall short. I was trying to prevent that from happening this month which seemed to mostly consist of saying "No" far too much. I don't like being the responsible one. I don't like being the one who has to say no all the time. Add to that today was my last final for the semester. We also are....were trying to make a nice Mother's Day gift for the grandparents. Unfortunately, that served as the proverbial fuse. I suppose I didn't make myself clear enough on what I wanted to do or I didn't understand what he wanted to do well enough. I'm not sure exactly where things went wrong but I know they went wrong, very wrong, again.
I don't want to get a divorce. I love my husband. I'm also 38 and don't want to start over again. I just want to make things work. I wish my husband would stop threatening me with divorce every time we have a bad argument. I begin to wonder if that is what he really wants, if he even loves me at all. He says I'm the one who wants the relationship over but that couldn't be further from the truth. I just want things to work out. I suppose we are one train wreck of a little family. Some days I'd at least like to downgrade to a car crash.
I don't want to get a divorce. I love my husband. I'm also 38 and don't want to start over again. I just want to make things work. I wish my husband would stop threatening me with divorce every time we have a bad argument. I begin to wonder if that is what he really wants, if he even loves me at all. He says I'm the one who wants the relationship over but that couldn't be further from the truth. I just want things to work out. I suppose we are one train wreck of a little family. Some days I'd at least like to downgrade to a car crash.
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
A Hike In the Woods
Here in Richmond, Indiana where I live we have a wonderful and underutilized little place called Hayes Arboretum. If this sounds like an ad, no I'm not affiliated with them (at least not paid!) except as a volunteer. Still, it is a great place to get out and be in the woods even if you live in town. They have trails for both hiking and mountain biking and educational programs for little ones as well. Today we went on our first extensive hike out in the Arboretum. We have been there before for short hikes but today we really went exploring. We packed a bitty guy friendly picnic lunch of peanut butter crackers, butter crackers, juice box, and carrot sticks and with map in hand went boldly where others have gone before. :P
There was one particular place we had in mind to go. We had seen a beautiful arch while driving past the Arboretum, just sitting out a ways in the woods. It wasn't until we started going to the Arboretum that we actually realized it was in the park and you were able to hike to it. As much as my husband and I are fans of science fiction, fantasy, and generally anything not normal reality we certainly couldn't turn up a chance to walk through a mysterious arch in the woods!
My husband and son standing under the arch to provide some scale. That arch is HUGE!
Some details of the arch. It has amazing plaster work on the facade over the brick. It is a beautiful piece of art.
I was very excited to find YELLOW violets on our hike. I had never seen a yellow violet and was thrilled to see them. I am hoping to find some outside the arboretum to transplant into my garden since they are a native wildflower and I am hoping to start a wildflower garden.
Later on our hike we found numerous other wildflowers. Some of which I could identify and others I could not. Some of the flowers were found growing on the trunk of a fallen American Beech tree. I had to climb through brush for the picture, but it was worth it!
We had been told by the owner of the arboretum that trilliums were in bloom along the yellow trail. We wanted to see the arch which was along the auto trail so that was where we went first and we didn't know if the little guy would be up for the walk along the auto trail and another trail as well. We hiked the auto trail to see the arch, snapped pictures of a few wildflowers and then decided it was time for a break. We broke out our picnic lunch and picked a flat dry area of trail to set up our picnic blanket. The trail was not busy enough that we were in anyone's way. We sat eating our lunch and listening to the sounds of the forest, enjoying the scenery around us. As we finished our lunch I looked up the trail we were on to see hundreds of white flowers. TRILLIUMS!! The trail we had so blithely taken our lunch on was the yellow trail and the hill we had chosen for our picnic was the Trillium Hill that the owner had told us about. Such a happy accident!
What looks sort of like dappled sunshine in the middle photo is actually hundreds of white trilliums. I had seen a white trillium before but I had never seen so many. Deep burgundy trilliums, nicknamed Stinking Benjamins, are much more common in Maine where I am from than the white ones are. I warned my husband about smelling a trillium. He, of course, had to test whether what I said was true or not and I discovered that white trilliums don't smell nearly as bad as the red ones I am more familiar with. Either way, nice smell or rotten smell, trilliums are a gorgeous flower. They made me think of our plans to someday hold a re-commitment ceremony since we never had much of a wedding to begin with. I was thinking that a wedding in the woods would be lovely so we decided to continue along the yellow trail to have a look at the woodland chapel. After a few misdirections and misreadings of the map we finally found the woodland chapel. It is a lovely little spot and my husband and I are already making plans for an early May ceremony in the woods sometime in the next year or two, hopefully with the trilliums in bloom.
After stopping at the woodland chapel we decided to head back for the trailhead since the little guy was getting exhausted. We accidentally got turned around and went the wrong way on the yellow trail resulting in a longer walk back. However, it wasn't such a bad thing since it brought us past the spring house and salamander stream. Along salamander stream ferns were growing and I managed to find a late fiddlehead. Sean tried it and declared he likes it better than asparagus! It is only confirming my feelings that Maine would be a fantastic place for us to live. He likes fiddleheads and loves lobster! He is a lost Mainer! Hopefully someday we will fulfill that dream of moving back to my home, Maine.
Along the stream we found the May flowers pictured above (the little white multi-petaled flowers growing next to a log in the wildflower pictures above). We also found an unexpected surprise! I found Jack-in-the-Pulpits! There were close to a dozen of them, which is amazing since they are an endangered flower. They are a lovely, beautiful little flower but I still hold mixed memories of them. When I was a child my mother and I found some in the woods. She remembered some lore that they were edible, or at least the root. She dug a root (which I also didn't know was illegal at the time since they are endangered) and brought it back to my grandparent's house where she cooked it....by boiling. Now you may or may not know, but Jack-in-the-Pulpit roots ARE edible...if they are mashed, dried, and ground to be used like flour. They are NOT edible if the only thing you do is boil them and eat them like potatoes. Well edible, but definitely not palatable. My throat burned and prickled as if I had eaten cactus thorns for hours. It was not a pleasant experience. Today the only thing I did was take pictures (which is all any responsible hiker should ever do with rare flowers).
Finally, we found our way our of the trail system and back to the trail head and our car. We took one more visit into the nature center so the little guy could visit the bees. On the way home the little guy surprised both of us by declaring that he wanted to go home and take a nap. He has not voluntarily napped in nearly a year. As soon as we got home he took off his shoes and headed for his room. Not long after he was fast asleep...for THREE hours!! I can't remember the last time he took a nap that long. My husband and I had time for a (much shorter) nap of our own and some afternoon adult fun time. :)
All in all an amazing day and a fun family outing. Perhaps the best part is that the cost of all of this was the cost of less than a gallon of gas to drive to the Arboretum and back home. Sometimes the cheap family outings turn out to be the best ones!
Oh and all the wildflower pictures also gave us an idea. Wildflower Bingo! We plan to give the idea to the Arboretum so maybe they can encourage younger visitors to be more interested in learning about native wildflowers!
There was one particular place we had in mind to go. We had seen a beautiful arch while driving past the Arboretum, just sitting out a ways in the woods. It wasn't until we started going to the Arboretum that we actually realized it was in the park and you were able to hike to it. As much as my husband and I are fans of science fiction, fantasy, and generally anything not normal reality we certainly couldn't turn up a chance to walk through a mysterious arch in the woods!
My husband and son standing under the arch to provide some scale. That arch is HUGE!
Some details of the arch. It has amazing plaster work on the facade over the brick. It is a beautiful piece of art.
I was very excited to find YELLOW violets on our hike. I had never seen a yellow violet and was thrilled to see them. I am hoping to find some outside the arboretum to transplant into my garden since they are a native wildflower and I am hoping to start a wildflower garden.
Later on our hike we found numerous other wildflowers. Some of which I could identify and others I could not. Some of the flowers were found growing on the trunk of a fallen American Beech tree. I had to climb through brush for the picture, but it was worth it!
We had been told by the owner of the arboretum that trilliums were in bloom along the yellow trail. We wanted to see the arch which was along the auto trail so that was where we went first and we didn't know if the little guy would be up for the walk along the auto trail and another trail as well. We hiked the auto trail to see the arch, snapped pictures of a few wildflowers and then decided it was time for a break. We broke out our picnic lunch and picked a flat dry area of trail to set up our picnic blanket. The trail was not busy enough that we were in anyone's way. We sat eating our lunch and listening to the sounds of the forest, enjoying the scenery around us. As we finished our lunch I looked up the trail we were on to see hundreds of white flowers. TRILLIUMS!! The trail we had so blithely taken our lunch on was the yellow trail and the hill we had chosen for our picnic was the Trillium Hill that the owner had told us about. Such a happy accident!
What looks sort of like dappled sunshine in the middle photo is actually hundreds of white trilliums. I had seen a white trillium before but I had never seen so many. Deep burgundy trilliums, nicknamed Stinking Benjamins, are much more common in Maine where I am from than the white ones are. I warned my husband about smelling a trillium. He, of course, had to test whether what I said was true or not and I discovered that white trilliums don't smell nearly as bad as the red ones I am more familiar with. Either way, nice smell or rotten smell, trilliums are a gorgeous flower. They made me think of our plans to someday hold a re-commitment ceremony since we never had much of a wedding to begin with. I was thinking that a wedding in the woods would be lovely so we decided to continue along the yellow trail to have a look at the woodland chapel. After a few misdirections and misreadings of the map we finally found the woodland chapel. It is a lovely little spot and my husband and I are already making plans for an early May ceremony in the woods sometime in the next year or two, hopefully with the trilliums in bloom.
After stopping at the woodland chapel we decided to head back for the trailhead since the little guy was getting exhausted. We accidentally got turned around and went the wrong way on the yellow trail resulting in a longer walk back. However, it wasn't such a bad thing since it brought us past the spring house and salamander stream. Along salamander stream ferns were growing and I managed to find a late fiddlehead. Sean tried it and declared he likes it better than asparagus! It is only confirming my feelings that Maine would be a fantastic place for us to live. He likes fiddleheads and loves lobster! He is a lost Mainer! Hopefully someday we will fulfill that dream of moving back to my home, Maine.
Along the stream we found the May flowers pictured above (the little white multi-petaled flowers growing next to a log in the wildflower pictures above). We also found an unexpected surprise! I found Jack-in-the-Pulpits! There were close to a dozen of them, which is amazing since they are an endangered flower. They are a lovely, beautiful little flower but I still hold mixed memories of them. When I was a child my mother and I found some in the woods. She remembered some lore that they were edible, or at least the root. She dug a root (which I also didn't know was illegal at the time since they are endangered) and brought it back to my grandparent's house where she cooked it....by boiling. Now you may or may not know, but Jack-in-the-Pulpit roots ARE edible...if they are mashed, dried, and ground to be used like flour. They are NOT edible if the only thing you do is boil them and eat them like potatoes. Well edible, but definitely not palatable. My throat burned and prickled as if I had eaten cactus thorns for hours. It was not a pleasant experience. Today the only thing I did was take pictures (which is all any responsible hiker should ever do with rare flowers).
Finally, we found our way our of the trail system and back to the trail head and our car. We took one more visit into the nature center so the little guy could visit the bees. On the way home the little guy surprised both of us by declaring that he wanted to go home and take a nap. He has not voluntarily napped in nearly a year. As soon as we got home he took off his shoes and headed for his room. Not long after he was fast asleep...for THREE hours!! I can't remember the last time he took a nap that long. My husband and I had time for a (much shorter) nap of our own and some afternoon adult fun time. :)
All in all an amazing day and a fun family outing. Perhaps the best part is that the cost of all of this was the cost of less than a gallon of gas to drive to the Arboretum and back home. Sometimes the cheap family outings turn out to be the best ones!
Oh and all the wildflower pictures also gave us an idea. Wildflower Bingo! We plan to give the idea to the Arboretum so maybe they can encourage younger visitors to be more interested in learning about native wildflowers!
More Work In the Garden
Work in the garden sounds like I actually got to play outside in the dirt. Yesterday I actually got to dig in the dirt some but today I just got seedlings started. Getting a bit of a late start on some of the seedlings but still getting a better start than last year. Last year it was the first week of June before I had anything out in the garden and 100% of my seedlings came from the store. This year, at very least, my squashes and cucurbits will be from seed and the first of the seeds have been planted out in the garden.
Yesterday, 30 April 2013, planted in the garden:
pole beans-8 poles
2 rows each sweet white and red onion
marigolds for the little guy
Planted in the house as starts:
Marketmore Cucumber (4) Replacement for plants eaten by pill bugs. I had the peat pellets transplanted into larger pots and the larger pots sitting on the ground in the greenhouse. The pill bugs climbed up into the pots and cut half my seedlings off at the ground! :( Hubby built me another shelf and the pots are now sitting up well off the ground and the bugs seem to be leaving the remaining plants alone so high hopes for the new starts.
Mixed Pumpkin
Small Sugar(2)
Fairytale(2)
Howden(2)
Zucchini
Emerald Delight(3)
Max's Gold(3)
Sweet Pepper-Purple Beauty(4)
Mixed Mini Bell (6)
Started Today, 1 May 2013, in the house as starts:
Winter Squash - Delicata Honey Boat(4)
Thai Green Eggplant(2)
Minnesota Midget Melon (4)
Mexican Sour Gherkin (6-2 w/o yarn)
Luffa(5) Also replacements for plants eaten by pill bugs. The pill bugs seemed to especially like baby luffa plants!
Pictures of baby plants soon.
Yesterday, 30 April 2013, planted in the garden:
pole beans-8 poles
2 rows each sweet white and red onion
marigolds for the little guy
Planted in the house as starts:
Marketmore Cucumber (4) Replacement for plants eaten by pill bugs. I had the peat pellets transplanted into larger pots and the larger pots sitting on the ground in the greenhouse. The pill bugs climbed up into the pots and cut half my seedlings off at the ground! :( Hubby built me another shelf and the pots are now sitting up well off the ground and the bugs seem to be leaving the remaining plants alone so high hopes for the new starts.
Mixed Pumpkin
Small Sugar(2)
Fairytale(2)
Howden(2)
Zucchini
Emerald Delight(3)
Max's Gold(3)
Sweet Pepper-Purple Beauty(4)
Mixed Mini Bell (6)
Started Today, 1 May 2013, in the house as starts:
Winter Squash - Delicata Honey Boat(4)
Thai Green Eggplant(2)
Minnesota Midget Melon (4)
Mexican Sour Gherkin (6-2 w/o yarn)
Luffa(5) Also replacements for plants eaten by pill bugs. The pill bugs seemed to especially like baby luffa plants!
Pictures of baby plants soon.
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